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Nigeria’s sacred cows and the rest of us…

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By Bola BOLAWOLE

Analysts say Nigeria’s sacred cows in politics and governance perpetuate corruption, insecurity, and systemic failure, blocking meaningful reform

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If I am to tell, I will say that Nigeria’s problems revolve around her sacred cows. Each and everyone of this country’s problems – be it corruption, insecurity, bad governance, infrastructure deficit, rigged elections, name it – they all revolve around and are traceable to sacred cows.

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If only we can find a way – or, better still, summon the courage – to cage our sacred cows, then and only then shall we be on the road to solving the myriad problems that confront us. But the snag is, who bells the cat?

Once upon a time, a mischief or colony of rats gathered to deliberate on one sore issue: The cat that steals in to kill and munch them.

After much deliberations, a very smart rat came up with the novel idea that they should get a bell and tie it around the cat’s neck; so that rather than the cat stealthily stealing in on them, the jingles of the bell around its neck will announce its arrival and every rat will be alerted to hurry into their holes to hide.

Everyone clapped! Smart idea! The rats contributed money and bought a bell. Now came the time to implement their resolution: Who will go and tie the bell around the cat’s neck?

You will find this story in the Aesop fable titled “The Mice in Council.” What morals does it teach? That it is easier said than done! That proposing solutions is easier than executing them!

But it does not at all mean that it can never be done; only that bold – even if dangerous and high-risk – steps are needed to solve nagging problems. Acting alone may be futile while collective action stands a better chance of yielding the desired result. But even this carries a heavy caveat!

Once upon a time again in a village, the king’s mother was a witch and every night the witch cried, the next day a child died.

The women got fed up and held a meeting where it was resolved that they must send a delegation to notify the king of their findings.

Taking a cue from “Who bells the cat?”, they decided to troop to the palace enmasse since no one was willing to volunteer to bear this very dangerous message. Before setting out for the palace, they rehearsed carefully how they would present their case before Kabiyesi.

One bold woman volunteered to lead. Once she says: “The king’s wife is a…”, all the other women should chorus “…witch!” They were to repeat this three times and then wait to see the king and his wife’s reaction. Fair enough!

The women booked an appointment to see the king. On the appointed day they put on their best attires and headed to the palace. The king and his wife, equally resplendent, sat on their thrones. The women sang and danced.

Their spokesperson, a seasoned PR guru, came forward and praised the king and his wife, reeling out their achievements since the king mounted the throne of his ancestors. The king was happy and waved his horsetail in salutation; his wife, too, beamed with smiles.

Then came the moment of truth. The leader stepped forward, cleared her throat and screamed: “The king’s wife is a …” The silence that followed would wake the dead! She looked behind her; she also looked around her: Did they not hear her?

She shouted the same message again. Again, deafening silence answered her. She did that thrice as they had earlier agreed, but then she realised her colleagues had chickened out.

Each time she looked back at her colleagues, they avoided meeting her bewildered gaze. Betrayal!

But thank God for wisdom. This woman quickly changed gear and put her car in reverse. She shouted “The king’s wife is illustrious!” And this time around her colleagues latched on to it! Everyone sang and danced. The king was happy. His wife, too.

The women, having chickened out when it mattered most, took their problem back home with drooped heads. They were too afraid to bell the cat. You may blame them, but speaking truth to power is not easy. Not everyone has the belly for rebellion.

Most people would rather suffer in silence and grumble when no one in particular is listening instead of marching in the streets and confronting their oppressors.

In any society, those who have the stomach for “struggle” are usually not many; even at that, they are seen and regarded most times by the same people they are fighting to liberate as “trouble-makers!”

Everyone knows that Nigeria’s problems are its sacred cows – in practical and figurative terms – but who bells the cat? Throughout President Muhammadu Buhari’s eight ruinous years, Nigeria’s problems were the Fulani and their cows, which Nigerians were told must be treated better than human beings.

Prominent Fulanis in and out of government told us they value their cows more than they value human beings – and they acted it! They kidnapped, killed, raped, maimed, burned down entire villages, ravaged farmlands and destroyed crops in the name of feeding their cows.

Large swathes of the country were laid desolate at the feet of the Fulani and their sacred cows.

Much of the problem of insecurity that has brought foreign troops into our country today is traceable to that. Notwithstanding, the Fulani and their cows still remain sacred because no one is willing – or ready, or able – to bell the cat!

If a man insists that his cow is sacred, you, of course, must know that he, himself, the owner of the cow, is super sacred! That is one of the problems this country is yet to come to terms with.

Some people from a section of this country see themselves as sacred cows; and, as if accepting this narrative, the other parts of the country defer to them! They say things that people from other parts of the country dare not say – and they get away with it.

They do things that others would shiver at doing – and they walk away free from the scenes of blue murder, which they not only perpetrate in broad daylight but also stick in our faces! They dare you! And you dare not! They wield two deadly weapons: the tyranny of (orchestrated) numbers and the tyranny of violence! With these, they sow fear – and tears – in the land.

The confession by Nasir el-Rufai that they bugged or hacked the communication lines of the National Security Adviser is one recent example! If someone who is not a sacred cow said what that short-man devil said, do you think he would walk away free? Even after he was invited for questioning, they quickly released him as if his yansh must not touch ground at the EFCC office!

This man not only bluffed the security men who sought to arrest him at the airport, he also went ahead to make the damning disclosure that they possess the capacity to compromise the country’s security architecture! It immediately raises the question of how porous our security architecture is.

It also calls into question the suitability of those manning it. True, then, is the saying that while the enemy lurks outside, the one who deals the real damage lies within!

Is this the reason why they are dying to have election results electronically transmitted so they can hack into the INEC system? When people are desperate, they do desperate things.

Was this not how, in their desperation in 2014, they invited Fulani terrorists into the country and the debilitating impact of that is with us to this day?

Have you forgotten that the same man who made the revelation about that pernicious invitation is the same man in the ongoing hacking revelation?

Finally, US soldiers have set foot on our soil. If our government cannot help us, let help come from elsewhere is what many Nigerians are saying.

Cry, the beloved country! Ideologically, I cannot support foreign troops on Nigerian – in fact, on any African – soil; least of all US troops! But we have seen enough to understand that our government cannot help us in this matter any more.

The sacred cows in the system will not let our government do the needful to end insecurity.

Those helping to hack the government’s communication lines are most likely enemies within who are sabotaging any and every effort of this government to succeed.

Think of all the reasons and sentiments involved: Politics, religion, ethnicity; not to talk of those doing it for pecuniary gains.

How will you know that we are all not on the same page on the issue of ending insurgency in the country? Just take a look at the kind of excuses some people are giving to counter the efforts by US lawmakers to see to it that the sacred cows who have contributed in one way or the other to the terrorism scourge are penalised! They are arguments that are, to say the least, jejune.

Did Rabiu Kwankwaso as governor of Kano state enact Sharia blasphemy law as alleged by the US lawmakers? Yes, he did! Has that law been the core of religious extremism-cum-terrorism in this country? Yes, it has! So, Kwankwaso has contributed to the problem; whether he did so under pressure or not is immaterial.

That there are worse offenders than him does not also exculpate him. What we need to do is point out the others who should be added to the list of those the US should penalise.

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The cloak of untouchability surrounding Nigeria’s sacred – even mad – cows must be shattered once and for all!

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GO BACK HOME?” NO. LET’S TALK FACTS: WHY DG HAMZAT’S ADVICE ON HOUSING IS PRACTICAL, NOT SURRENDER*

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By Sola Fajobi | Lagos Citizen_

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I don’t like shouting matches online. I have bills to pay in Lagos like everyone else.

But when I saw the backlash to Lagos State Deputy Governor, Dr. Obafemi Hamzat’s comment advising young workers to “live with parents, relatives, or share accommodation instead of rushing to rent expensive apartments,” I felt we were missing the point.

The headline was weaponized. The context was ignored. The data was buried.

Let’s talk facts.

*1. THE REALITY: LAGOS HAS A LAND PROBLEM, NOT JUST A POLICY PROBLEM*

Lagos is not like other states. We are running out of dry land.

*Lagos State Land & Housing Deficit – Quick Facts:*
– *Total land area*: ∼3,577 sq km. With reclamation it’s now ∼4,050 sq km
– *Lagos Metro land*: 999.6 sq km
– *Population 2025 estimate*: 17.8M in metro. 21M for greater metro area
– *Density*: 6,871/km2. Urban density hits 14,469/km2

That means 21 million people are fighting for space on land smaller than Oyo State. About 22% of Lagos is water. We can’t create more land without spending billions on reclamation like Eko Atlantic, Orange Island, and Banana Island — and those end up expensive by design.

Result: A housing deficit estimated at 2-3 million units. Demand will always outstrip supply until we address land + transportation.

So is telling people to “share accommodation” surrender? No. It’s what every mega city does.

*2. WHAT THE DG SAID IS ALREADY GLOBAL BEST PRACTICE*

London: A 1-bedroom in Zone 1 is £1,500 – £2,500/month. That’s ₦3M – ₦5M/month. So people live in Watford, Luton, Reading and commute 1hr+ by train.

New York: Young professionals have 3-4 “roommates” in a 2-bedroom in Manhattan/Brooklyn.

Toronto, Dubai, Singapore: Shared housing and living with family into your late 20s is normal.

The DG wasn’t saying “don’t be independent.” He was saying: “Be strategic while the system catches up.” That’s not failure. That’s financial intelligence.

Mistaking culture for policy is what critics did. But the truth is: sharing flats, living with family to save, and moving to affordable corridors is _both_ a personal strategy and a stop-gap that governments worldwide encourage.

*3. WHAT LAGOS GOVERNMENT IS ACTUALLY DOING ON HOUSING*

To say “there is no plan” is to ignore what’s on ground. The Sanwo-Olu/Hamzat administration has been the most aggressive on housing in 10 years:

*A. MASS HOUSING DELIVERY*
– *Lagos State Rent-to-Own & Rental Schemes*: Schemes in Igbogbo, Sangotedo, Iponri, Odo-Onosa/Ayandelu to reduce upfront burden.
– *Lagos Home Ownership Mortgage Scheme – LAGSHOM*: Subsidized mortgages for civil servants and private sector workers.
– *Public-Private Partnerships*: Over 20,000 housing units delivered or ongoing across the state.

*B. FIXING THE “YEARLY RENT” PROBLEM*
The Lagos Tenancy Law already caps agency/legals and encourages monthly, quarterly, half-yearly rent. Enforcement is the challenge, and LASRERA is currently clamping down on violators.

*C. THE REAL GAME CHANGER: TRANSPORT*
This is where the DG’s thinking makes sense. You don’t fix housing in Lagos by only building in Lagos Island. You fix it by making Badagry, Epe, Ikorodu, and border towns in Ogun viable.

– *Blue Line Rail*: Operational. Red Line: 80%+ complete.
– *Green & Yellow Lines*: In planning/procurement.
– *Goal*: Live in Badagry, work on Lagos Island, and get to work in <1 hour. When that happens, land pressure reduces. Rents drop. This is exactly what London, Tokyo, and Paris did. *4. THE MISSING PIECE: REGIONAL SOLUTION* Lagos cannot do this alone. We need Ogun and Oyo to play. Imagine: 100,000 housing units built along the Berger-Magboro-Abeokuta corridor with direct BRT/Rail links to Lagos. Ogun provides land. Lagos provides jobs. People win. That’s the regional megacity model that works globally. The DG and Governor have been pushing this in the DAWN Commission and with the Ogun State Government. *5. SO WHAT SHOULD LEADERSHIP SAY?* Here’s what leadership _is_ saying, and what the DG meant: “We know rent is high. We are building thousands of housing units. We are enforcing rent laws. We are building rail so you can live affordably outside the core. While we do that, be smart: share accommodation, live with family to save, and don’t trap yourself in debt chasing a postcode.” That is not “go back home.” That is “let’s build the ladder together.” *CONCLUSION: CRITICIZE WITH SOLUTIONS, NOT SOUNDBITES* I’m not in government. I’m a Lagosian paying rent too. I know the pain. But we must separate frustration from facts. The housing crisis in Lagos is a math problem: too many people, too little dry land, too slow transport. The answer isn’t vibes. It’s: more housing + cheaper rent options + working trains + regional planning. That’s what this administration is working on. And that’s why I believe DG Hamzat, who has a background in urban planning and finance, is the right person to continue this work as the next Governor. We don’t need recycled outrage. We need builders. Let’s build the ladder. _Sola Fajobi is a Lagos-based entrepreneur and writer. He writes about business, entertainment, media, policy and everyday life in Lagos.

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In Defence of Governor Dauda Lawal’s Administration Against Social Media Campaign of Calumny

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By Oladapo Sofowora,

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While many are wondering why naysayers of Governor Dauda Lawal are angered by his growing influence in Zamfara and Nigeria’s political space, which has led to his consistent inclusion in President Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s foreign trips entourage, such critics are rather myopic or economical with the truth.

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Instead, they should be excited that a highly cerebral and financially prudent Governor like him is being included in these high-level diplomatic engagements, from which Zamfara stands to gain significantly.

These trips open the state to better strategic positioning and create room for foreign direct investment in agricultural development, mining and mineral resources and other critical sectors.

While counting its gains and celebrating that a state once known as Nigeria’s poverty capital is gradually reclaiming its lost glory, all thanks to Governor Dauda Lawal, many are playing politics with the collective future of Zamfara’s people.

The recent malicious and unverified post with the headline “ZAMFARA, Hijacked by Thieves!!” being shared across social media maligning and casting aspersions on Governor Dauda Lawal should not be overlooked by well-meaning Nigerians rather we all should collectively rebuke the author for trying to spread falsehood ignorantly by positing unverified stories to start a campaign of calumny against Governor Lawal and the Zamfara State Government.

The author is definitely on a mission to paint a picture that does not reflect the true situation on the ground.

Despite the opposition’s constant wailing, Zamfara has continued to shine, recording not only a change in fortune but also unprecedented infrastructural development across the state one not witnessed since the creation of the state decades ago.

Many states have even called for the Zamfara blueprint to be replicated elsewhere to achieve similar success. This shows that Governor Lawal is getting things right with his policies and also ways of actualising them.

Personally, despite witnessing all the developmental strides of Governor Lawal in Zamfara State, I find it essential to speak up against the lies being peddled online about a Governor who is financially prudent and has ensured that Zamfara experiences unprecedented development.

He could easily have opened the state’s purse and spent like a drunken sailor, but instead, he chose to invest in healthcare delivery, educational development, security, women’s empowerment, skills acquisition, infrastructural development, agriculture, transportation and more.

Governor Lawal is Attracting Investment and Not Junketing Around the World

The author alleged that Governor Lawal spent millions of dollars on globe-trotting despite the figures being overly inflated by the author to suit his agenda, but conveniently ignores the results of these diplomatic missions. The world does not invest in a state it cannot see. Governor Lawal has been a tireless advocate for Zamfara’s visibility on the global stage.

Unlike previous administrations, this government has actively engaged with development partners and investors, positioning Zamfara as an investment hub, a strategy that contributed to the recent launch of the $200 million Zamfara Lithium Mining and Processing Plant operated by ZAM Mining Co. Ltd in Boko Village, Zurmi LGA, a joint investment by Chinese firm Jinlide Co. Ltd, Bima Mines and other partners. In business, you use money to make money and for Zamfara, foreign direct investment has not only positioned the state as an investment destination but has also created jobs and revenue opportunities that will drive sustainable development.

The trips the author listed have further secured critical partnerships in agriculture, infrastructure and security. The so-called “first-class tickets” and “charters” are standard for high-level diplomatic engagements, designed to protect the safety and security of the state’s number one citizen.

This is not a luxury; it is a necessity and protocols allow for such travel arrangements. As Governor Dauda Lawal has always advocated for open books and financial prudence with his budget performance published annually, the financial allocations the author mentioned are for official purposes and are documented not pocketed.

The accusations are merely beer-parlour talk, given the massive influx of international support currently benefiting Zamfara State.

The United Nations Secretary-General, Mrs Amina Mohammed recently paid a visit to the state where he lauded the governor for his strides also the educational sector is receiving positive attention from a global educational development body.

These are gains of the foreign trips and every kobo spent is properly appropriated and accounted for in the budget performance.

On the allegations of lavish spending on aides, the author also listed inflated figures allegedly allocated to the Governor’s close aides, figures that are clearly obnoxious.

One wonders whether the author was present when the money he quoted was disbursed. The figures are merely a figment of his imagination, a blatant lie from the pit of hell.

All those mentioned have vehemently disclosed that they only receive allocations tied to their offices, as required by law and that nothing extra was paid.

The way the author quoted figures in dollars suggests he believes the dollar is official legal tender in Nigeria, which shows the author is simply trying to sell lies in a palatable way.

On ACReSAL and Development Contracts, the author has attempted to paint contracts for rural development as a “looting” exercise.

This is an insult to the hardworking people of Zamfara, who can see where their taxes are being put to good use and where allocations are being expended.

Some states award contracts that never see the light of day, but the contracts the author mentioned are verifiable and are actively being executed by the administration or some have been delivered.

In Zamfara, contracts are bid for with solid requirements and when any contractor meets the required standards and demonstrates capacity, such contracts are awarded. Nobody unbiased can see the work being done by Governor Lawal and call it inferior.

Contracts in Zamfara are executed with quality specifications and in line with stipulated procurement processes.

According to sources, many contractors are awarded jobs based on performance and track records. As regards the allegation that contracts are given to Governor Lawal himself, that is a complete falsehood. Governor Lawal is not a contractor. He was a seasoned investment banker before venturing into politics.

If the author can provide the name of Governor Lawal as director or owner of any company that has received contracts from Zamfara State, let him do so by publishing with facts and not mere assumption in a bid to distort the truth.

On the ACReSAL Project, the administration is actively implementing the Agro-Climatic Resilience in Semi-Arid Landscapes (ACReSAL) project.

Just recently, the project supported 1,000 Zamfara farmers with agricultural inputs and improved seeds to enhance food security.

The contracts listed are not handouts to “friends”; they are development projects awarded to qualified firms. For instance, the ACReSAL project has specific contracts for flood and erosion control, such as the reclamation of 1,000 hectares in Gusau and Bungudu LGAs. These are projects that save lives and land.

The Governor is committed to ensuring that the disbursement of funds actually delivers visible projects, unlike the previous administration where money was simply “shared” without any physical legacy.

The “Outsiders” Claim

The author also claims that over 90% of contracts are going to “outsiders” is a blatant lie. The government is transparently awarding contracts based on competence, speed and capacity.

The pace of development across Zamfara and its local governments is unprecedented. His Excellency is focused on leaving a legacy of infrastructure. The billions of naira being spent on roads, hospitals and the airport are not “looted”; they are being constructed.

The Airport recently had Zamfara pilgrims going for holy pilgrimage in Saudi Arabia fly and land after performing Hajj. We see the roads, the new Government House renovations, the solar power lighting up communities, the hospitals, the primary healthcare centres, the schools and more.

The author also mentioned a Zamfara indigene who got a contract based on their capacity. The question to be asked is were contracts not carried out and delivered? When an indigenous company gets a contract, the effect trickles down to the people because it’s a way of making funds move around the local economy.

Governor Lawal has always advocated that 80% of Labour for Zamfara contracts should be picked from the people within the community this will create job opportunities and will also ensure inclusion in terms of economic effect on the people who will benefit from getting paid.

On the security funds embezzlement allegation, I also find it deeply offensive that the writer would accuse the Governor and his aides of embezzling funds intended for security. Governor Dauda Lawal has made security his top priority, investing heavily in the security architecture of the state.

In the 2025 budget, security constitutes 6% of the total N545 billion “RESCUE BUDGET 2.0,” totalling N32.28 billion allocated to security interventions.

The Governor has established the Community Protection Guard (CPG), which has curtailed the level of insecurity experienced before the advent of his administration.

He has also been a vocal advocate for state police, arguing that it would give governors genuine authority as chief security officers to combat insecurity effectively.

The results are there for all to see: attacks have reduced, farmers are returning to their lands, and communities that were once deserted are now being repopulated. To insinuate that this administration is embezzling security funds is to insult the sacrifices of our gallant security forces who risk their lives daily to protect Zamfara citizens.

As much as I have wanted to look away from the lies being peddled, posterity would judge me for keeping quiet when such falsehoods are being consumed hook, line and sinker by many who believe them.

The allegations are nothing but cheap political tricks. The administration under Governor Dauda Lawal has empowered more Zamfara indigenes in the last two years than in the previous ten.

However, the administration should not allow a “taxi” company without the machinery to execute a multi-billion-naira road project just to satisfy the quota of “indigeneship.” The government is building a state not an employment bureau for political cronies.

I urge the public to disregard this baseless blackmail. The Governor remains undeterred in its mission to reset the Zamfara narrative. The administration of Governor Lawal is open to scrutiny, but should not entertain a critique that ignores the visible evidence of development.

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The administration’s books are open, projects are visible and the Governor is firmly on the ground politically. Instead of spreading falsehoods, the author should visit these project sites and see for himself the transformation of a state finally freed from the shackles of poor leadership.

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Tributes to Dr. Segun Osoba and Abosede Oluwayemisi

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By Bola BOLAWOLE, 

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Dr. Segun Osoba, Marxist scholar and historian, was one of my mentors and role models. Our paths crossed long before I came face-to-face with the enigma at the then University of Ife, now Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, where he not only taught me courses in the History department, but was also our staff adviser and comrade.

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Cerebral and unflinchingly principled, Osoba snubbed the usual hussle, if I may call it that, of many academics to attain to the professoral status, preferring to remain “Dr.” even though everyone knew he was not the mate of many a professor!

For me, Osoba’s fame travelled far ahead of him. Appointed by the Murtala Muhammed regime into the Constitution Drafting Committee in October 1975, Osoba, together with his ideological soulmate, Dr. Bala Usman of the History department of the Ahmadu Bello University (ABU), Zaria, broke ranks with the other members of the CDC to author a people-oriented draft Constitution that made the Nigerian people’s interests, aspirations and well-being its focal point. It was termed the Minority Report.

Expectedly, the conservative Olusegun Obasanjo regime that succeeded Murtala Muhammed rejected the Osoba/Bala Usman report while accepting the report of the majority members of the CDC on September 14, 1976. The CDC was chaired by Chief FRA Williams.

The majority/minority report divide apart, the CDC was not without its controversies: The sage, Chief Obafemi Awolowo, had declined to serve on the committee, thereby reducing its members from 50 to 49. There was also the debate as to what would have been the choice of a much more radical Murtala Muhammed had he not been assassinated on February 13, 1976.

Specifically because of Osoba and Bala Usman, I chose to study History in the university! And I was fortunate to drink from the fountain of knowledge at the feet of Dr. Osoba on and off the classroom. As comrades, our relationship did not end at Ife; usually, comradeship is a life-long endeavour.

In late December 2023, after a spell of ‘long-time-no-see’, four of us old students/comrades of Comrade Osoba decided to visit him at his Ijebu-Ode residence – Femi Falana, SAN; Ambassador Ayo Olukanni; Kayode Komolafe (K.K.) and my humble self.

Comrade was still his very sharp and humorous self. Despite his health challenges, he still “recognised” each and everyone of us by our voice. We discussed for hours and it was amazing that ill-health spared his intellect. He was his familiar self – analytical, even if caustic, going down memory lane and recalling facts and figures as if he was reading them from a book spread out before him.

We promised to return. Unfortunately, we procrastinated, despite Olukanni’s repeated prodding. But as individuals, we attended his 90th birthday celebration held at Ijebu-Ode on 9th January, 2025. His book, “Critical and Contentious Issues in the Modern and Contemporary History of Nigeria: Collected Writings of Samuel Olusegun Osoba”, which was unveiled at the occasion, adorns my Library. See also my “Tributes to Comrade (Dr.) Segun Osoba at 90”, published in this column in the Wednesday, 15 January, 2025 edition of the New Telegraph newspaper.

Dr. Osoba passed away peacefully at home in Ijebu-Ode on 14 May, 2026. A flurry of activities by comrades from all the nooks and crannies of this country as well as abroad celebrated his life, extolled his virtues, pledged to continue the struggle from where he stopped, and bid him farewell from this earthly plane. In this were the words of Che Guevara fulfilled: “Wherever death may surprise us, let it be welcome, provided that this, our battle cry, may have reached some receptive ear and another hand may be extended to wield our weapons (Message to the Tricontinental, 1967).”

I was unable to participate fully in some of the activities because of the tragedy that fell at my doorsteps at about the same time.

First, my elder sister’s husband, Gabriel Alani Olusola Omiyale, died on June 11, 2026 at the age of 89 years. He was a mentor. Then came the bombshell: His daughter – and my sister’s second child, Abosede Oluwayemisi – died the same month on June 29th at the age of 54!

That was massive! To say we were devastated is an understatement. If the pains that attended Bose’s death remain indescribable, the ways and manners of her husband and his family immediately before and after her death remain a puzzle. They rubbed insults on our injury.

They desecrated our Yoruba customs and traditions. Bose had heroically battled the scourge of breast cancer; after undergoing an operation, we were all optimistic she was on the path to full recovery until tests showed she needed more medical attention.

Naturally, she was devastated but, gradually, she built up the confidence and strength required to see her through. No stone was left unturned by her extended family who did not leave the load for the husband and his family to carry. All hands were on deck.

The extended family had always been there for Bose. Her siblings had been wonderful; never allowing her husband’s unstable job situation to show or affect Bose’s treatment and other needs, including her children’s education and welfare. I also played my part. I am grateful to everyone who responded to our clarion call in many ways.

We were hopeful we would all pull through it and that Bose’s case would be another testimony that cancer can be beaten. All she needed – as much as medicare – were words of encouragement and support. That, however, became the weakest link!

Act one: Against the best advice of her mother, my niece was made to consume a concoction that turned the tide. According to her husband, the concoction was procured by his own brother in Akure, Ondo state, taken to a church for prayers after which it was dispatched through a motorpark! Bose drank this concoction and started vomiting. In his own testimonies, Bose’s husband took her to a hospital where she was given drips, which gave her some strength, but because the doctor was late in coming, he took her back home despite the fact that the test they ran indicated that she had a blood infection! That night at home, she started vomiting again and, according to the husband’s testimony, he took her again to the hospital by 1.30am. She was left unattended until late afternoon when she fell into a coma! Bose’s blood infection was never treated until she passed away!

Act Two: Our standard practice had been to always double-check whatever a doctor said or prescribed, but on this fatal day, Bose’s husband kept all of us in the dark. We were not told of the blood infection. We were not alerted when she started vomiting again in the night. We were not informed when he took her again to the hospital. According to him, Bose walked with her own legs into the hospital, climbing the row of stairs all by herself.

Act Three: At the hospital, the husband took Bose’s phone and locked it in the car parked downstairs. So she had no access to her phone – to call out or receive in-coming calls. She was held incommunicado. And there was no one else there with the husband and wife. He called noone; he also snubbed repeated incoming calls into his own phone, including from my elder sister, who is Bose’s mother.

Act four: Later that afternoon, the husband called me to say Bose was not responding to treatment and that I should start interceding for her. I was aghast! I had been waiting all day for them to link up with me for a scheduled appointment. Later, a female voice using the husband’s phone called me to quickly come to the hospital. I was on my way there when Bose’s second child, a girl writing exams at the Obafemi Awolowo University, called me, sobbing! “Daddy, what is happening to my Mom? My Daddy called me and said my Mummy is in coma” Coma! “Yes, sir”, the girl replied, “and my Daddy said my Mummy is dead!” I almost lost control of the wheel because I was driving.

Act Five: On getting to the hospital, they had already started embalming Bose! I screamed at the husband, but the hospital staff restrained me. Why the haste? Without any of her family members present! A thousand thoughts ran riot in my head. At 6.28 pm, Bose’s mortal remains were deposited in the morgue and we left.

Act Six: While we were agonizing about how to break the sad news to Bose’s mother, her husband and his family had posted Bose’s death on every conceivable social media platform, breaking the news to her young children, the oldest of whom is just a little over 20 years while the youngest is 14!

Act seven: We the siblings of Bose’s mother wanted a decent burial for her. We wanted her dreams and visions for her children respected. Bose’s husband and his family spurned all of that! They weaponized Bose’s young children against us. They threw their so-called customs and traditions in our face at every turn – as if the Yoruba have no customs and traditions. They employed deceit and subterfuge and hurriedly committed Bose to mother earth without any of her family members present! We warned! They ignored and played games!

Google says Edema is a name answered by both the Urhobo and Itsekiri people of Delta state. Does their culture permit the trumping of Yoruba customs and traditions? Should a husband boast to his children – while their mother was still battling cancer – that, if she dies, he will remarry? So, expect his wedding invitation!

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Had Bose died of cancer, our pains would have been less insufferable; but she did not! Were they tired of the stress and wanted closure so they could move on with their own life? Hastened to her death! Hurried to the grave! This is to put the records straight. Our immediate attention, however, is the good health of Bose’s mother – and Daddy Omiyale’s burial slated for 29th and 30th of October this year.

Let Dr. Segun Osoba rest in power! And eternal rest grant Abosede Oluwayemisi Edema (nee Omiyale), O Lord!

 

(Published in the TREASURES column on the back page of the Wednesday, 5 August, 2026 edition of the New Telegraph newspaper).

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