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My Life Lessons @ 55…The Stones that the builder rejected… By Renowned Motivational Speaker, Dayo Olomu

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Who could believe that a young man whose father died when he was eight years old,  who celebrated his 10th birthday at a bus garage in Lagos (Iyana Ipaja to be precise) selling iced water to support his mother, whose identity was stolen when he relocated to UK and who was ridiculed when he started out as a speaker  is now a multiple award winner with 160 awards, an iconic global brand, a renowned international motivational speaker, human capital development expert, business transformation strategist, leadership trainer, business mentor, executive coach, award winning event host, bestselling author, a key person of influence, board member, HR leader, community champion, philanthropist and most importantly a devoted Christian, husband of a beautiful wife and father  of awesome children.  The stone which the builders rejected has become the chief cornerstone. This is the Lord’s doing; It is marvelous in my eyes. I return all the glory to God.
I am grateful for the Lord’s grace upon my life because I am a product of grace. I am grateful for who I have become. I am happy the way my life has turned out.  Most people did not believe that I would turned out like this. I know my mother would be very proud of me that her toil in me did not end up in vain.
I feel great and fulfilled seeing the results in people and organisations that I have helped transform right in front of my eyes as they have choices and new strategies to help them live a more fulfilling and empowered life and become who they had always wanted to be.
I am happy that I have been able to restore belief and confidence to many who have lost it, vision to those who can no longer see and cure many people of possibility blindness. I am enjoying the products of my dream and vision. Every day I think of the many people that I meet through my writing, speaking engagement, workshops and social medium forums and their stories of how I have impacted their leaves positively. I am very thankful for the many opportunities that I have to make a difference in people’s lives. I am also thankful for the grace the Lord has given me to create awareness and raise funds for many charities since 2006 through running many marathons, skydiving, walking 100 km from London to Brighton and feeding the homeless through Dayo Olomu Foundation. The greatest lesson/s that life has taught me is that to be successful you must have trust God, have strong faith, have your own vision and define your goals. You must be hungry to achieve your dreams and a strong desire to succeed and back that desire with action. You must have absolute belief in yourself that you have what it takes to be successful and when setbacks or tragedies occur, do not give up; instead see them as opportunities for growth because success thrives on adversity. As the saying goes, “A calm sea does not make a skilled sailor.” Nothing worth gaining is gained without difficulty”. I must also add that you keep the right company and continue to build, expand and sustain a network of people who can support you to reach your goal. You must run your own race. It doesn’t matter what other people say about you. What is important is what you say to yourself. Be comfortable in your own skin. Be true to you. That’s a key source of happiness. I am not in completion with anyone but myself. My goal is to improve myself continuously.
You must think big, start small and act now.  The person determined to achieve maximum success learns the principle that progress is made one step at a time. A house is built a brick at a time. Every big accomplishment is a series of little accomplishments.  The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.  However, completing a journey of a thousand miles requires only that you keep walking in the right direction!” My story isn’t unique – many others have realised their dreams just as I have. But it does go to show that you can achieve whatever you want to if you have a strong desire to succeed and backed that desire with action and self-belief.  My story is all about turning dreams into reality. A speaker once said, “You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.”
When I get to the end of my life, I want to know that my life counted for something, that long after I have left this world, somehow my impact lives on. I want to know that I have done all that I could to make this world a better place, by positively enhancing the lives of those around me and helping thousands, if not millions, to become who they desire to be and achieve what they thought was impossible. I want to know that I gave everything my best shot. I want it to be on record that I maximised my potential and stretched myself to the limit. Most importantly I want to know that I serve God and that I am a good husband and father who made a positive difference in the world.
Finally, I think it will be nice if we can all do our little bit to make a difference and to use the catchphrase of Steve Jobs, “put a dent in the universe”. “Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.” (Desmond Tutu). Hence I dedicated my 55th birthday by running the marathon in one week to raise funds and create awareness for Prostate Cancer. I want to thank for the supported me by donating generously. You can still support me by donating at https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/dayoolomuat55 I am thankful to God for making it possible for me to witness this day.  And the Lord who has started a great thing in me will see it to completion. He will never leave me nor forsake me as I move from success to significance.

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”Adaobi Alagwu is parading fake DNA Certificate” ….Tunde Ayeni

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 The controversy surrounding the paternity of the daughter of Abuja based lady Adaobi Alagwu has once again popped up in the media with her release of a DNA certificate which businessman, Dr Tunde Ayeni emphatically describes as not only compromised but fake.

In a press release, which he personally signed, Dr Ayeni noted: “This lady is being clever by half. She is haunted by her reckless past and is truly desperate. It is this desperation that is pushing her on this journey to infamy and ultimate disgrace.”
“It has become necessary to once again address the persistent and shameful campaign of blackmail, deceit, and defamation orchestrated by Ms. Adaobi Alagwu. When I say the certificate is fake, it is a position informed by indisputable facts. First, the result was meant to be out in five days. Later, a letter, purportedly from the centre, came pushing the date the result will be ready by two extra days. When we cross checked from the centre, they denied knowledge of the said letter and Indian name that signed it. At that point, it became crystal clear to us that the process has been compromised and that the outcome cannot be genuine. We have since discovered other nefarious steps taken to come about the so-called DNA certificate.”

He said further: “Despite multiple public statements, legal affirmations, and sworn affidavits unequivocally denying any ties or paternity claims, Ms. Alagwu continues her relentless campaign of falsehoods. Multiple investigations revealed that Ms. Alagwu and her associates hacked into the email accounts of the accredited laboratory responsible for the actual DNA analysis. Their goal was to insert a falsified document to support her baseless claims. People are privy to these facts and in due course it’ll be presented to the appropriate authorities especially now that we are in court”.

The release noted:  “For instance, it was not a mere coincidence that it was at the critical point in time when we were expecting the results that Google found out that the email we used had been compromised. At that point, we lost confidence in the process and the centre. It was then we requested for another DNA at another center, which the lady rebuffed” he added.

“Let it be stated clearly that:
*       Dr. Tunde Ayeni has no marital connection to Ms. Adaobi Alagwu: This fact has been affirmed repeatedly in official legal documents, including a sworn affidavit.

* The child in question is not Dr Ayeni’s. Ms. Alagwu’s fabricated DNA result contradicts the legitimate, verified results that conclusively establish the absence of any biological relationship. At the appropriate time and place, this evidence will become public knowledge.
* This desperation will lead Adaobi nowhere. If she is confused about the true father of her daughter, she should invite her numerous dates for DNA tests.

* The ongoing blackmail and cyber-attacks boarders on criminal intents and legal actions are ongoing to seek full redress.


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Nifemi Temiloluwa Eitaio-Alao’s Innovations, Politics, and Community Service

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In a competitive market like Lagos, setting a furniture brand apart requires a unique approach. For Nifemi Temiloluwa Eitaio-Alao, this means prioritizing sustainable materials, innovative designs, and exceptional customer service. By engaging with local culture and incorporating traditional craftsmanship, he aims to create furniture that not only stands out but also resonates with the Nigerian identity.

Keeping up with industry trends is crucial in the furniture business, and Nifemi is closely monitoring key shifts such as the growing demand for sustainable materials, multifunctional furniture suited for urban living, and locally crafted designs that reflect cultural heritage. To adapt, he is focusing on sourcing eco-friendly materials, designing versatile pieces, and collaborating with local artisans to create unique offerings that blend modern aesthetics with traditional craftsmanship.

As a seasoned entrepreneur, Nifemi envisions a diverse product portfolio that caters to both residential and commercial spaces. His goal is to attract customers who value quality, sustainability, and distinctive design—young professionals, families, and businesses seeking furniture that combines elegance with functionality.

The rise of emerging technologies, including 3D printing, augmented reality (AR), and smart furniture, is reshaping the furniture industry. Recognizing the potential of these innovations, Nifemi is exploring partnerships with tech firms, investing in team training, and staying ahead of industry advancements to integrate these technologies effectively into his business.

Customer satisfaction is at the heart of his brand’s philosophy. He prioritizes clear communication, personalized service, timely delivery, and strong post-purchase support. By actively listening to customer feedback and responding to their needs, he fosters trust and loyalty among his clientele. To gather valuable insights, he leverages surveys, direct interactions, and social media engagement, ensuring that his products continue to evolve based on customer preferences and market demands.

Finding the right balance between aesthetics, functionality, and durability is key to creating high-quality furniture. Nifemi achieves this by selecting premium materials and employing innovative design techniques that ensure both beauty and longevity. Additionally, he manages customer expectations regarding delivery times and custom orders through transparent communication, setting realistic timelines, and keeping clients informed throughout the process.

Beyond his business pursuits, Nifemi remains deeply invested in his political aspirations. Having publicly expressed his ambition two years ago, he sees public service as a natural extension of his entrepreneurial success. With strong roots in Kwara State, he feels a growing responsibility to give back to his community. As the 2027 elections approach, he and his team are diligently laying the groundwork for his political journey. While he has yet to officially announce the office he intends to run for, he remains optimistic and eager to share more details in the near future.

As his birthday marks another milestone today February 14, 2025—a day that coincides with Valentine’s Day—Nifemi looks forward to celebrating with gratitude and giving back to those in need. He cherishes this annual tradition as an opportunity to reflect, offer prayers, and share his blessings. Surrounded by supportive friends, he anticipates a joyful celebration filled with love and appreciation.

Looking ahead to 2025, Nifemi is determined to push the boundaries of excellence in his entrepreneurial ventures, with a strong emphasis on sustainability, innovation, and community impact. He remains committed to transparency, ethical leadership, and advocating for policies that support small businesses and economic growth. For him, success is not just about personal achievement but about creating opportunities for others to thrive. With big plans on the horizon, he is ready to embrace the challenges and opportunities that the future holds.

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Aare Adetola Emmanuelking Graces OGD’s Annual Family Thanksgiving Service 

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Aare Adetola Emmanuelking, the Otun Asiwaju Onigbagbo of Remoland, attended the 20th Annual Family Thanksgiving Service of His Excellency, Senator Otunba Engr. Gbenga Daniel (FNSE, FAEng, FNIMechE), on Sunday, January 19, 2025. The event was held at Abraham’s Tabernacle, GRA, Sagamu.

As a distinguished guest, Aare Adetola delivered a goodwill message that resonated deeply with the congregation, celebrating His Excellency’s  commitment to faith and gratitude. In his address, Aare Adetola praised his dedication to honoring God over the past two decades. He remarked, “This annual family thanksgiving service, now marking its remarkable 20th edition, is proof of God’s grace and the enduring legacy of a man devoted to the service of humanity, his faith, and our beloved Remoland.”

He lauded His Excellency’s tradition of bringing together family, friends, and well-wishers in gratitude and encouraged attendees to embrace a life of thanksgiving.

Aare Adetola’s presence at the event underscored his reputation as a devout Christian and a respected community leader. Renowned for his philanthropic contributions and support for the development of Remoland, he used the occasion to inspire hope and a sense of purpose for the year 2025. He also offered prayers for continued blessings, health, and prosperity for Senator Otunba Gbenga Daniel and his family.

The thanksgiving Service was a remarkable gathering of faith and fellowship, graced by dignitaries, clergy, and other notable personalities. The event concluded with heartfelt prayers and soul-stirring songs of gratitude, leaving attendees uplifted and inspired to approach the new year with renewed faith and purpose.

Aare Adetola’s active participation reinforced his commitment to promoting faith-based initiatives and fostering unity within the community.


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